My relationship with my husband has seriously deteriorated and I have to think about work. I am still married, have a grown son, but I have never worked, so no real experience. At first I couldn’t because my son was young and I had no education (I gave birth when I was 19). And then I got higher education, but I didn’t look for a job, because everyone was happy with everything.
Now I want to start working, but my husband is against it. He wants another child, and one is more than enough for me. I am interested in a career now, but I will have to start it from scratch, and my husband already earns good money and does not want to change anything. We fight a lot and constantly on this ground, and no one intends to back down. In the future a divorce is possible and I will have to think about how to earn my own money. My husband can find a new, younger woman to have another child, if I do not agree. And I will be left at a broken trough, because I have no work experience and will not take me because of my age to a good place, where you could gain experience.
Now I want to start working, but my husband is against it. He wants another child, and one is more than enough for me. I am interested in a career now, but I will have to start it from scratch, and my husband already earns good money and does not want to change anything. We fight a lot and constantly on this ground, and no one intends to back down. In the future a divorce is possible and I will have to think about how to earn my own money. My husband can find a new, younger woman to have another child, if I do not agree. And I will be left at a broken trough, because I have no work experience and will not take me because of my age to a good place, where you could gain experience.
The husband wrote everything down to his parents, like not to pay taxes. Now I realize that I was a fool and did not protect myself from his machinations. But the train had left the station and I had to do something, not get depressed. I am fed up with diapers, I want to do self-development and career.
I would be glad if someone could help you with practical advice, where you can find an interesting money job, so that age was not important and was not required good looks. By education I am a manager of tourism, but that was 9 years ago and I objectively understand that little I remember and much has changed since then in this field.
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Show comments Hide commentsAlmost everyone wants a good job, so that experience is not required and there is nothing to do. This is almost never the case…
There are a lot of “money” topics, but almost everywhere you either have to work hard or take risks. I also really want to sit quietly somewhere and get a good salary, but I have to work and work.