Two years ago my husband started playing a popular online game. He played for a couple of months, then I noticed that he always had ICQ open. And checking our computer I found files with messages to a certain Tatiana in the city of Odessa: birthday wishes, all sorts of postcards with his poems, where he signed his fake name. As is the custom with us women, I checked my phone. I found the text messages. And the last one: “I’m coming to you, my love.
Two years ago my husband started playing a popular online game. He played for a couple of months, then I noticed that he always had ICQ open. And checking our computer I found files with messages to a certain Tatiana in the city of Odessa: birthday wishes, all sorts of postcards with his poems, where he signed his fake name. As is the custom with us women, I checked my phone. I found the text messages. And the last one: “I’m coming to you, my love.
I couldn’t contain my anger, I made a huge scandal. But as a practical woman, I kept Tanya’s number for myself. He explained it this way: he had become friends with a man in his online game chat, who began to complain that he suspected his wife of infidelity and asked my husband to check her for “lousiness”. As a result, my husband got involved in “exposing” me to the full extent: I could walk around the apartment naked – he didn’t notice me, he sat all the time in correspondence with this…
I think we got it sorted out. I was jealous, so I texted that little brat from my phone on my husband’s behalf, saying that I was not coming, because my wife wouldn’t let me come. She was shocked – what wife? And then I wrote to her on my own behalf, that no one needs her, and hubby just checked her and that he did it for a reason.
But my relationship with my husband never got better. My husband became indifferent to me, then he began to receive suspicious texts again, he began to be late at work under different excuses… All summer he appeared at home 2-3 times a week and said that he had a lot of work to do – the season was in full swing.
I tried to talk to him calmly. As a result, we “agreed” to live separately, saying that he was tired, but he had no mistress. There was nothing left for me to do, so I had to shut the conversation down.
After the New Year holidays I found his present from another woman. And a postcard in which she wrote how grateful she was to my husband for bringing her and her brother some music equipment and giving them a subscription to a tanning salon in the local prestigious beauty salon. And he told me at the time that he had bought it for himself and would be writing music in the studio. And this happened very unexpectedly, as he usually shared his plans with me, and he wasn’t that interested in music… And it also says how she picked out his cologne and wants him to smell good! And a lot of other things, but obviously not a word about sex.
Again we have a conversation that turned into a scandal. This time I agreed to live with him separately. He moved out, but he came regularly to visit his son and took him for a ride in his car. And I cry every time. Recently I demanded that he give me the keys to the apartment and the wedding ring. I am fed up with all this, I am confused, and I want to stop this nightmare.
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Don’t sign for all women, please. I would never stoop to going through a loved one’s private things
Unfortunately, this situation is not uncommon in families. Advice is not helpful here, either. I would like to support you and wish you fortitude and courage at this difficult time in your life.